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The 5 Best Dogs For Meeting Women
It’s not that you want a dog so you can pick up women. It’s that you realize it’s a pretty awesome side benefit of having a four-legged friend. Of course, all breeds are not
Read More »Help Getting Vulnerable
The last article I wrote was about the strength and power vulnerability has. Today I want to talk to you about a few tactics to help you achieve a deeper vulnerability. First, let’s try
Read More »Body Language’s Role in Poker
This article was written in collaboration with Ash Williams of PokerListings.com At first glance one might not think poker and dating have much in common, but they actually share more elements than many people
Read More »Use Vulnerability To Connect Better
I got an email asking why I write a lot of personal stories on this blog. There are a multitude of answers for that and I will answer that question in the hopes that
Read More »Remember Any Name, Including Hers
Make no mistake about it, friends: you lose points when you can’t recall a name. Whether it’s a girl or a potential business partner you’re trying to woo, remembering names shows respect and regard. On the
Read More »Episode #158: Gary Wilson, YourBrainOnPorn.com
Watch too much porn? Having some trouble getting it up? Losing interest in real-life women? You may not know (we had no idea), that excessive porn use can cause something called Porn-induced erectile dysfunction (ED),
Read More »Episode #157 – University of Michigan Alumni Association presents: Success Through The Art of Charm
In September, 2010, AJ & Jordan Harbinger were invited to give a talk to the student body at their alma mater, The University of Michigan. Although the talk focuses on Business Networking, The Art
Read More »7 Keys to Hooking Up While Traveling
Going on holiday is always a blast. You put your regular life on hold and move into a world where anything is possible. This is particularly true when traveling abroad. Spend your days seeing
Read More »5 Reasons To Not Pursue Love/Sex At Work
We have all heard horror stories about pursuing the opposite sex at work, yet for some reason people still do it and I get plenty of letters asking how to do it. Let’s just
Read More »PickUp Podcast Episode #156: Ross Mallor, Professional Poker Player
Sitting in the can for 3 years, getting sweeter with time, we’ve finally decided to kick this one out the door. — AJ and Jordan sit down for an inside look at high-stakes poker
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