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Crafting a Nickname that will Help in the Game
One of the first PUAs I had the pleasure of meeting called himself “Perineum. As defined by Merriam-Webster Dictionary this word means “the area between the anus and the posterior part of the external
Read More »Judging Your Workout by the Adonis Index Ratio
An Inside look at the three critical steps needed for an effective workout How do you measure your progress in the gym? Is it weight loss? Is it muscle Gain? Strength gain? I’ll bet
Read More »Applying Tenets of Tao Te Ching to Dating
One of the things I’ve always liked about Eastern wisdom in general and the Tao Te Ching in particular is its practicality. Before, I associated spirituality with some guy in a long robe spewing
Read More »Sex and Human Contact are Needs We Should Not be Ashamed of
You’re about to approach a woman and suddenly you’re overcome with a creepy, paralyzing feeling. The feeling is a blend of irrational fear, disappointment, and frustration. Often there’s a little anger in there too.
Read More »You Got Her Number, but Her Body Language Said No.
The Fake – I mean, the Flake It’s the dreaded “flake” or “flake-out.” It happens to many folks, enough that we know the end of the story pretty much from the start. She gives
Read More »Understanding Love and Intimacy Leads to A Healthy Relationship
A friend recently asked me this very interesting question: “Do you believe it is possible to love more than one person at one time?” Before I share my answer with you, let me tell
Read More »Qualification: The Art of Asking Questions
Next that brings us to the essence of qualification or essentially the art of qualifying others beyond simply time wasting. For that let’s look at one of my heroes. Bill Gates. I slept with
Read More »The Best Pickup Line: No Pickup Line
Men frequently ask me, “What’s the best pickup line?” This question usually is an indicator of three issues: The first is the man’s basic insecurity about interacting with women. He is probably somewhat shy
Read More »Using Qualification and Disqualification to Predict an Outcome
In order to understand the depths of qualification beyond simple time management we need to look into some other definitions of the term. We look back even further to the philosophical conundrum known as
Read More »Using Qualification to Gauge a Situation
When I was first asked to write some articles for Pickup Podcast, I was incredibly excited. But then almost at once the pressure started. Not external pressure but pressure on myself. I’ve written countless
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