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Life Ain’t Fair (Annoying But True Life Lessons)
I was lucky growing up, although I didn’t always think so at the time. I had parents who “Got It.” They “Got” Life. They didn’t shy away from topics like sex and drugs and
Read More »Time For Action
Give a man a watch and he’ll know what time it is. Give a man two watches and he’ll never know what time it is. –Anon. There can be an inverse correlation between the
Read More »Date, Shmate. Try This Instead!
Spring is here! Here’s one of the best parts of spring. The weather, even for most of you in colder climates, is finally getting bearable without seven layers of clothing. There’s no more running
Read More »Don’t Be A Lingo Loser
Why did you find the community? Somehow, someway, you’ve not been making the connections you’d like to make in your life. The details are all different for different people, but that one underlying
Read More »Attraction Addiction
In this community, we have an abundance of material to help us learn how to create attraction, but not as much on how to keep it and grow it. What happens after the day
Read More »Even Kim Gets Approach Anxiety
Yup. It’s true. I did something that made me more uncomfortable than I have been in as long as I can remember. I like to dance and frequently go to clubs solely to shake
Read More »The Games Men Play
I went out with about ten friends, a mixed group of men and women. We were just out to enjoy life and have a few drinks and some fun. We sat at a round table
Read More »How Women See a Night Out
I have a lot of guys ask me about what happens as a woman in a club. They want to know what’s going on in our heads as we watch men approach, or watch them
Read More »There is No Reality
There is no reality. Remember the conversation between Neo and Cypher in The Matrix? “You know, I know this steak doesn’t exist. I know that when I put it in my mouth, the Matrix is telling
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