Richard La Ruina was 21 before he got his first kiss, now he is known as one of the world’s best seducers. He is the author of ‘The Natural: How to Effortlessly Attract the Women you Want‘, and founder of PUA Training in the UK.
In this episode of the show, Jordan and Richard talk about his new book, which country has the best-looking women, and how to screen for a good girlfriend.
He says: “My book teaches everything I’ve learned over the years, on my journey from the 21 year old who hadn’t ever kissed a girl and didn’t have a clue to a guy who has had an incredible amount of beautiful women in his life”. He hopes you’ll be able to replicate some of his success from the tips on this podcast, as well as in his new book. Enjoy.
Jordan Harbinger has always had an affinity for Social Influence, Interpersonal Dynamics and Social Engineering, helping private companies test the security of their communications systems and working with law enforcement agencies before he was even old enough to drive.
Jordan has spent several years abroad in Europe and the developing world, including South America, Eastern Europe and the Middle East, and speaks several languages. He has also worked for various governments and NGOs overseas, traveled through war-zones and been kidnapped -twice. He’ll tell you; the only reason he’s still alive and kicking is because of his ability to talk his way into (and out of), just about any type of situation. Here at The Art of Charm, Jordan shares that experience, and the system borne as a result, with students and clients.
Great interview! I was hoping you guys would go into more detail and role playing with the conversation skills, but nonetheless it was still an excellent interview. Richard was talking about not wanting to seriously date any girl who allows him to kiss her in a short period and let him sleep with him in the first night or so. My question is where is the line between her being “easy” as opposed to the “guy” which in this case, Richard just having amazing social skills unlike most other men that she has run into before which allows the girl to have an amazing connection early on?
Interesting question, and one that I think about a lot. One of MY personal rules is that if a girl sleeps with me “too quickly” after I’ve pulled out all the stops, I won’t allow myself to judge her for it, because it’s essentially at LEAST 50% “my fault” if you will. I’m not sure how Richard feels about it though, so I won’t speak for him. If I had to guess though, I think he was talking about a girl at a club, especially in front of others, etc.
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Great interview! I was hoping you guys would go into more detail and role playing with the conversation skills, but nonetheless it was still an excellent interview. Richard was talking about not wanting to seriously date any girl who allows him to kiss her in a short period and let him sleep with him in the first night or so. My question is where is the line between her being “easy” as opposed to the “guy” which in this case, Richard just having amazing social skills unlike most other men that she has run into before which allows the girl to have an amazing connection early on?
Interesting question, and one that I think about a lot. One of MY personal rules is that if a girl sleeps with me “too quickly” after I’ve pulled out all the stops, I won’t allow myself to judge her for it, because it’s essentially at LEAST 50% “my fault” if you will. I’m not sure how Richard feels about it though, so I won’t speak for him. If I had to guess though, I think he was talking about a girl at a club, especially in front of others, etc.
Hi there,
This one isn’t downloading to my itunes. I get 2 minutes of it and that’s it. Is there an issue or just me? Thanks!