If you’re a “Nice Guy”, this post is for you. How can you tell?
If any of these are true, you might be a “Nice Guy:”
- You consistently have dates, but you’re not getting sexual with them
- You always buy her a drink (and sometimes her friend, too)
- You’ve been told recently some variation of, “Oh, you’re great, but I just don’t like you like that.“
Dating can be very frustrating if for the “Nice Guy.” Here are a quick few posts from the Pickup Podcast archives to get you on the road to recovery:
Sexual Tension: How To Be The Guy Who “Gets It”
“Let’s Just Be Friends” is what they hear from women, not:
“Can I come over?”
“What are you doing tonight?”
“There’s this great party, and I’d like you to come with me – are you free?”Do you hear those words form women? Keep reading….
Your Most Powerful Tool In The Bedroom–It’s Not What You Think
Maybe you’re “a nice guy” or “a gentleman”. That’s all good. But if you are always a nice guy, it does not spark any excitement in her. There is a time and place to be a bad boy. You need to push out of your comfort zone and learn how.
The Truth About Being Perfect
In fact–are you sitting down for this?
If You Are “Mr. Perfect”, You May As Well Be “Mr. Nice Guy” While You’re At It.
Why?
Simple…you’re going to come off as “Mr. Impossible” in the end if you’re EITHER “Mr. Perfect” or “Mr. Nice Guy”. She’s going to think you’re faking it. She’s going to think you have an agenda.
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You're great but I don't like you like that – Man everyone hates sentences like that. We've all been there though. IT takes times like that to realize how wussified your inner wussy really was.