The #1 Mistake Men Make with Women…
Is focusing more on what to say than on how to say it.
“What do I say to her?” Is always the first thing guys ask.
A better question is “how should I communicate with her?”
I was recently working with a very genuine, smart guy who swore to me that there are
zero available women in his home town, and those that are there are unapproachable.
He lives in one of the largest cities in the U.S..
I pointed out to him that he has a ‘victim mentality.’
If you believe that your love life is the way it is because of external forces outside of your control, you are communicating that you are a VICTIM. Healthy, attractive women are not drawn to victims, they are attracted to POWERFUL men who evaluate their situation and do whatever it takes to get what they want.
POWER is Supremely Attractive to Women.
photo credit: Ken Wilcox.
You don’t need the kind of power that comes with having lots of money, or a fancy job, or big muscles.
You’ll find your POWER when you begin to TAKE RESPONSIBILITY for your situation.
Recognize that your love life is what YOU have constructed it to be. It is the product of all your best efforts beginning from the day you were born up to this second. Even if that product is not what you want it to be, acknowledge it, and own it.
The best openers are not those which ‘open’ a conversation. The best openers are those which ‘open’ someone up to the possibility of you. Women have the uncanny ability to see right past your opener and see the POWER in your approach. Women are much more open to possibility when approached by a POWERFUL man.
If you need help improving your game, before reaching for the funny openers, first, take responsibility for your situation. THEN you’ll be approaching from a position of POWER.
Need some help with your most powerful approach? I will now illustrate how to take responsibility for your situation.
If you are the 10th person to email me right now and mention this note, you will receive one FREE 40-minute 1-on-1 telephone coaching session with me. The only rules here are that you are the TENTH PERSON to contact me (just to make it interesting) and that we have not worked 1-on-1 before. You will not be charged or marketed to – the agenda of our session will be set by you. This is a big value, yours free for TAKING RESPONSIBILITY for the current state of your game and making the bold step of asking for help.
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