When it comes to women and dating, I cheat whenever I get the chance!
What I mean is, when I’m out socializing meeting new attractive women, I like to cheat by creating tons of attraction before I even approach a woman so she is primed before we meet. A lot of guys hate me for this because I get away with doing things this easy way, but wouldn’t you rather be sure that a woman is going to want to talk to you before you walk over?
Think about it… Wouldn’t you rather approach a woman who is already attracted to you than a woman who doesn’t even know that you exist?
This is why rock stars get laid all the time without even trying! Before they’ve even met the women they sleep with, these women see crowds of women screaming for them, these guys are on stage entertaining everybody, and all the women go wild with attraction…
photo credit: Geoff Livingston
It’s not just rock stars who do this: average guys do this all the time. In fact, what I discovered is that average guys who have figured this out can make this happen in a matter of minutes with some practice.
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What happened was I started to notice that when I was out with a big group of friends (especially if they were women) all the women around me saw me being social and making these girls who I was with laugh. I was even getting approached by women! What I learned is that a lot of these women saw me having fun and talking to everybody so they already wanted to meet me.
Now, whenever I’m at a social event before I even approach an attractive woman, I like to cheat by creating attraction with her before I even speak to her so that I’m more likely to win the dating game.
There are a few ways I do this and teach my students to do this:
1. Make Female Friends and Bring Them with You
Would you rather…
a) Walk into a nightclub by yourself
…OR…
b) Walk into a nightclub with three beautiful women who are part of your group?
What I discovered is that making a lot of female friends will drastically improve your social life. One reason is that it just makes for a lot more fun when you go out in a big mixed group.
When women see you with other beautiful women it communicates all the right things:
- women are comfortable around you
- women are attracted to you
- it shows you have a social life.
All these things are conveyed to the women around you before you even meet them. Then by the time you approach them, they really want to meet you.
2. Do Short Interactions with Everybody
Just by walking around a party and saying, “cheers!” and tapping your glasses then moving on, you’ll be demonstrating to all the women in the room that you are a fun, social, confident guy.
Also, saying a quick cheers and walking away creates intrigue because she’s often left thinking, “Wow! Who was that guy?” and it makes you stand out in a good way. This is the best way to cheat because it builds attraction by her thinking about this after you walk away while you’re not even there!
I also like to do high-fives or just wishing everybody a happy Friday or happy Saturday. Many times these women will start talking to you and pull you into a conversation.
3. Learn about Fashion and Style
You don’t need to be an expert, however it’s important that you pay attention style and grooming because your style could be a deal-breaker for many women. You can cheat here too–by having great style you might already be seen as a woman’s ‘type’ before you even speak to her.
For example, I recently posed a question to my female followers on Facebook asking if a man’s fashion is important to them. Almost unanimously, women were saying it’s very important. Just listen to this one response from a woman:
“I am loath to admit this, but it can make or break things and often does. Shoes especially.”
If you need help with this, enlist the help of a friend who has a keen eye for fashion. Get at least one great outfit that you can wear out to social events.
If you work on just these three things, it will improve all of your interactions with women when you’re out in a social environment because you can create attraction before you even approach them. Women will feel more comfortable around you, and have a desire to meet you by the time he walk over.
Have you experimented already with these cheats? Leave a comment below!
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Patrick is a Dating Coach based out of Vancouver, British Columbia who offers training that provides men with the skills to build a social network with many beautiful women in any city starting from scratch. You can watch his free dating tip videos at SocialFromScratch.com.
