Did you know that there are three little words that every woman is dying for you to say to her?
No… not those three little words. Yes, a woman wants to hear those too once you’ve actually established a relationship with her, but I’m talking about another magic phrase–a phrase that will draw women to you like moths to a porch light.
That phrase is “I got it.”
“It” could be anything from holding the door to picking a restaurant to giving her a night of endless pleasure (“You want multiple orgasms? I got it…”).
What this really conveys is that you are in charge of the situation, which is unbelievably sexy to a woman.
So, how can you take charge of a situation?
Make a freakin’ decision! Seriously, if I had a dollar for every time a guy had said some version of “Um, I don’t know, what do you want to do?” I could retire early. Very early.
I know that a lot of guys mistakenly believe that they are being “nice” and “respectful” by asking a woman what she wants and constantly checking in and making sure that she’s “ok.”
This is not nice and respectful behavior. It’s wussie behavior. Cut it out and make a decision.
There is no venue she wants to go to more than the one that you take her to. There is no food that tastes better than the way it feels when you take charge and choose the restaurant without asking her a million questions.
The way to fully respect a woman is to lead–to have everything taken care of, so when her mind starts working and worrying, you just give her a big grin and say, “Relax, I got it.”
And she melts like butter on hot toast.
A woman’s greatest pleasure is being able to completely surrender to her man. Like I said, “it” could be anything, but if you don’t take control, take charge, and make a decision about something, anything, then she can’t fully let go and enjoy being with you.
Soon she will find a more alpha man that she can surrender with.
So what happens if you pick a restaurant and your date throws a fit about it? Clearly you made the wrong choice… not the wrong restaurant choice, the wrong date choice.
But if you make a habit of asking out fun, relaxed, low-maintenance women, then most likely she will be thrilled with whatever fun adventure you have planned for the two of you.
So take charge, make a decision, make a plan, and invite a woman along. When she starts asking questions, just smile and say, “Don’t worry, I got it.”
