I hate using the number scale for women’s looks but I need to for today.
So, you wanna know how to get a 10?
Truth be told most of you don’t even really know what that is, or wouldn’t know one if she came right up and hit on you!
I get countless E-mails asking this question in various forms. Most of the time a persons “10″ is someone they think they can’t have. Someone who is unreachable for whatever reason, and therefore this girl gets put on a pedestal.
I have met many rock stars, actresses, beauty queens and models in my life and I hope not to shatter any of your dreams these people are just as big of a wreck as you or me if not worse with all the attention they get. I stood behind a penthouse pet of the year as she spilled her guts to a friend that she has not been a date in months. Hell I did not even know who she was till I was
introduced to her and thought to myself “really this tiny girl is blab la bla of the year?” Sure she was good looking so was half the women in the place.
Most of these women I meet and hangout with tell me that men never approach them and
when they do they get treated like the virgin Mary because of all the value men put on them. They feel they could never have a real relationship. Basically I am telling you if you view them as such 1-10 bullshit then they will take on that meaning of unobtainable and you will fumble around with the interaction get up in your head and blow it.
That is why getting yourself comfortable with women is so important. To be able to talk to the beautiful girl in the elevator, flirt and be fun without getting in your head. Hell that’s how I met Jessica Alba do you think of her as a 10? I had know idea who she was when I was flirting with her, I thought she was a cute girl in the elevator so I started my usual playful speak. Basically she
was a women and she was there. Maybe I would of recognized her if she was wearing the chaps from Sin City. Point being when I started approaching women I felt were “10s” I also started seeing the bumps in the nose the crooked teeth, the dyed damaged hair, everyone has their quirks that’s what makes them so awesome.
These girls in magazines and movies are so made up you would not recognize them going for their morning coffee. Its important to talk and be sociable and fun in your daily routine. If you are in your head you will never notice the hottie getting the paper on the corner. When you see these girls all decked out on Saturday night you won’t approach cause you feel you do not have game for a 10? Well let me tell you if that’s the way you think well then you don’t. If you do manage to go over there you will have placed so much value on her you will not be able to be your true charismatic self. Women are truly skilled reading body language they can see incongruence a mile away. If you have already talked to 100 women in the last month you will have a better chance coming off cool and collected.
Go out have fun you never know who you are going to meet. View everyone equally and find out what awesome things they can offer you rather you offering them.
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