Don’t Have “Young Frankenstein” Game

Dr. Frankenstein did not set out to create a monster. He was a scientist working for the betterment humanity. There was a theme to Mary Shelley’s book about the scientist and the monster that everyone in her world could relate to… people were questioning, “were scientists messing with things that we don’t understand… and could that eventually cause us a world of trouble?” The social science that you are learning to improve your skills with women can make you the man you want to be, but it also could produce some very dark side-effects that you are not yet aware of.

When many begin learning how to attract women, your intellect and strategizing is aimed at a very specific part of the interaction… the first 3 minutes. To some extent, the first few hours until they can get laid. This focus, unfortunately, creates a situation in which the woman is the obstacle to the pussy. The basis of the science of Neuro-Linguistic Programming is simple and persuasive: We use words to think. When you form a thought in your head, you do it with words and sentences.
And so the words we use consistently, form the WAY we think about things. So when we use words like “target” or “obstacle” in social situations, when we use a military term like “wingman” for
your friend who helps you “win” or “score”, and when we rate women on a scale of 1-10 based on their physical attractiveness… when we break down social situations in a scientific manner, the result is de-humanization of women on a massive scale.

This isn’t as bad as it seems. In fact, it’s normal… for boys entering puberty. During puberty boys develop a very powerful desire for sex that largely goes unfulfilled. It’s no wonder that we begin thinking of girls as the guardians of the sex that we crave. The female becomes the enemy defensive force between us, and the pussy. Somewhere along the line in order to have a lasting relationship you undoubtedly must get past this. When we start to relate to woman as people and not guardians of the pussy we can realize we were just shy guys who weren’t very sexually successful. No shame in that. But in studying how to become more successful with women, the don’t regress to a more immature state. Here’s the bottom line: Some people are naturally
more extroverted than others.

Accepting yourself as either a shy or a more outgoing person will make you confident. Confidence breeds attraction from women. But if you are a naturally shy guy who wants to become a big stud in the nightclub, you are probably just trading shy for weird. Being shy, from a woman’s perspective,
is much more attractive than being weird. Sure, when she’s drunk in a bar she may think, “this guy is so crazy… I’m interested to see what makes him tick.” She may part with her phone number, she may part her legs. But when she digs any deeper all she’s going to find is some deep in-congruency and artificial constructs pinch-hitting for your humanity. The very things that are “working” to get you phone numbers are literally DESTROYING your chances at a normal relationship. And here’s the thing, pal… here’s the reason this is so important to you and to your ultimate happiness in this
life… A normal relationship is just a quick stepping stone to having a powerful, passionate, loving relationship with a woman that you just completely adore and who, in turn, completely adores you. I know not every man wants that.

I think most do and quite a few of the others that say that they don’t are just in denial. But, heck, I could be wrong.

Be good, play safe, be nice to women always.

Tagged as: Attraction, Sex

Article by Alex Allman

I grew up in the suburbs of New York City in a neighborhood that had basically no boys my age, at least none living in walking distance. Mom worked, so she couldn't always be there to drive me over to a friend's house. Unless I wanted to sit home alone every day, I had to learn to play with the girls... so most of my friends growing up were female. As a result, I never became very good at sports. To this day, I'm a spaz when it comes to throwing and catching, or basically any "ball sports". But what I DID become very good at was communicating with girls... In other words, I'm a guy who understands that mysterious language called "girl talk". Later in life, this gave me the ability to communicate about, listen, and understand issues of female sexuality that are usually hidden to most men. Since 1993 I've been studying and refining my theories on sexuality and relationships, and I think I've come up with some stuff that nobody else is talking about. A lot of it is what I call the "elusive obvious" — When you hear it, you think, "of course! I know that!", but still, you weren't doing it in your own relationship, and when you START doing it, magical things happen... and your sex life goes right through the roof. My book, Revolutionary Sex, has helped thousands of men to dramatically improve their sexual skills (and thousands of women who are in relationships with those men to smile a lot more often). I hope that I can bring you some valuable information that benefits YOUR relationships.

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