Episode #76 LondonSoul Interview

Jeremy, aka LondonSoul of Lovesystems drops by to discuss getting sexual with women.

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Pickup Podcast Episode #76 London Soul Interview
Introduction: Johnny and Jordan interview Jeremy aka London Soul.  In this thrilling interview Johnny and Jordan ask the fetish super star all sorts of questions that pertain to building up attraction, and being sexually available to women.  In this podcast you will learn that “yes women want sex just as much as men. “ You will also learn that you should exaggerate to calibrate.  A girl will respect you for being a man and crossing her boundaries than being a wuss and not stepping up to the plate.  As we dive into the wonderful world of The Art of Charms Pickup Podcast, let us lend our ears to London Soul as he takes us on a journey into the mind of a kind hearted deviant sex god.
London Soul is a Master at day game and knows how to hit the streets and pick up women.  He attracts, banters, and then seduces women using body language and his sexuality to make them feel comfortable and at ease.  What is his secret you may ask; he is a coach at Love Systems.   What he’ll say is that after hours of going out in the field and approaching women he has gotten comfortable with expressing who he is in a real authentic fashion.
London Soul  expresses his sexuality and fantasies and lives them by taking the women he is with down his path.  He says that doing this stuff teaches you how to fit into social situations and how to get along with people. He thinks it’s important to express different sides of your personality. It’s extreme when you are being that character all the time.  At one time it got to the point where he was super sexual with every girl he met, but now he’s dropped it down a level.  Nowadays he pulls back into a calibrated level that’s verbal and non verbal.  He says the problem that most guys make is expressing no sexuality which leaves them in the friend zone or expressing too much sexuality which brands them as a sleaze.  What you have to do is find a zone somewhere in between where you can build attraction.
One thing that men need to realize is that women enjoy the process of sex just like men, but the roots in their journey to get to that place is different for us. We want sex instantaneously; it’s one of our primary motivating factors. For women sex often comes further down the road; she needs to feel the attraction, she needs to feel trust and comfort, and it needs to be wrapped up in all these different things.  You’re going have to make sure you’re making her have fun.  You’re going to have to appreciate her, and tell her a couple of things as to why you’re talking to her as opposed to any other girl you might meet in the club.
The biggest thing you have to remember is that she’s not going to lose attraction because you are escalating.  The truth is, in 99% of situations the girl will never lose attraction for you because you tried to escalate. The real truth is she’ll be more attracted to you because you tried to escalate things; if you get turned down just chill, wait, and try again later.
There’s a saying that we have at our boot camps which is “a woman is more likely to forgive you for being a man than she will for being a pussy” (Johnny)
Sexual presence is the last major part of building attraction.  Presence is important because it creates a vibe and mood about who you are while expressing little words or none at all.  Sexual presence is essentially, the use of body language to portray your personality.  The best way to build a sexual presence is to emulate people that exude the type of sexual presence that you want to express.  As Johnny says you take the positive things out of these people and make them work for you.  “Robert Downey Jr. Exudes cocky confidence…Russell Brand from forgetting Sarah Marshall doesn’t care and is overtly sexual.  You have to say things that convey sexuality without expecting a reaction.  The key when meeting new people is to enjoy their company, remember they don’t need it.”