This article is continued from Mental Foreplay Part 1. If you haven’t read that already, start there. Otherwise, read on for examples of using mental foreplay can keep you having sex all day long!
Inside the bedroom, foreplay is physical…
Outside the bedroom it must be mental!
Basically everything above is done using “Mental Foreplay”. Another way to look at it is like this… Inside the bedroom, foreplay is physical. Outside the bedroom it must be mental. A woman once said, “If a man can fuck my mind, he can have me.” She is articulating the mental aspects of female sexuality as “mind fuck”. I prefer to call it “mental sex”. This leverages the important concept that “everything is sex”. Also because foreplay is sex, it follows that “mental foreplay” is “mental sex”.
To sum this all up… Mental Sex begins with seduction, and seduction must go on ALL THE TIME! Throughout the day you must use “mental foreplay”.
Seduction Must Go On All The Time!
You must at all times be seducing your woman in some manner. It may be subtle, it may be obvious. But it must always be taking place. Why? Simple… Women absolutely LOVE being seduced. They love the way it feels. They feel beautiful and sexy. They feel desired. They get to feel all the things that women love to feel. Even in an ongoing relationship, a woman wants to be seduced by her man. Always keep an air of sensuality. When your woman thinks of you, she must think thoughts of being seduced. Still with me here? Don’t worry, it’s really easier to do than explain. I’ll show you an example I do all the time…
A Real World Example of Mental Foreplay
You can do all of this even when you two are apart. A great way is to send her text messages. They may be innocent messages with sexual innuendos, or they may be blatantly sexual.
Here is an example from a secret journal I kept during my recent 2 1/2 year relationship. It starts innocent and works up to blatant.
At this point in the journal, I had been dating Anne for 3 months, and I had been giving her wild screaming orgasms. We were together Thursday night, and were going to be together again Saturday night. Friday, while she was at her work and I was at my work, I text messaged her:
Anne: Hi Handsome!
David: Hi Beautiful. You looked so beautiful to me last night.
Anne:
You looked pretty hot yourself!
David: You felt so wonderful in my arms, Baby.
Anne: It felt wonderful to be held by you, Baby.
David: I cannot wait to see you tomorrow, Baby.
Anne: I can’t wait to see you too! I still haven’t decided what to wear!
David: I can’t wait to see what you have selected. You always look so beautiful to me.
Anne: You always make me feel beautiful, David.
David: You always make me want you so badly, Anne.
Anne: I want you too, Baby, badly. I’ve been thinking about you all day!
David: Have you been thinking about how badly you want me to make love to you?
Anne: Yes!
David: Tell me how badly you need me to make love to you.
Anne: David, I so badly need you to make mad passionate love to me!
David: Tell me how badly you need to be fucked by me.
Anne: David, I so badly need to be fucked by you!
Simple isn’t it? It doesn’t take much to get her THINKING about ‘it’. And here is the beauty of this, she is already excited for what will happen later and it is hours before the bedroom. She literally ripped my clothes off that night!
(Note: There are many more examples in specific situations are documented in my Secret Journal, which is part my Bring Out Her Inner Slut System. But it’s not available to the general public.)
How To Get Your Woman To Want A ‘Quickie’
Now, about the conditions for your woman to be receptive to a quickie. If you do all the things I have described in this article, she is going to want you all the time. It’s actually very possible she’ll become addicted to you, so she will definitely be very open and excited about a quickie.
In fact, you want to occasionally do that. For her it is very exciting. But only if you have been seducing her all along. A seduced woman can be sexually aroused just as quickly as a man. In fact, even faster when she has been continually and properly seduced.
Takeaway Points:
Masterful Lover Secret #1:
Don’t wait until going to bed or just before sex to start foreplay.
Masterful Lover Secret #2:
Stimulate her mind before you even think about stimulating her body. Start hours before you head to the bedroom.
Masterful Lover Secret #3:
Think of everything between you and your woman as sex. This makes EVERYTHING you do mental foreplay and is VERY exciting for her!
- Never make your woman do anything sexual, instead bring out her SEXUALITY.
- Never push your woman to do something, instead always LEAD your woman mentally to want it.
- Lead her MIND, and let her body beg to follow.
- Make her hungry for it, and then when you feed her, SATISFY her beyond what she even knew she was capable of, thus leaving her even more hungry for the next time!
The author of The Secrets of Female Sexuality, David Shade is a regular featured speaker at dating and sexuality events in the USA and Canada, has been on Playboy Radio, and featured in Men’s Health and OUI magazines.
David has a free video that shows you what women secretly wish you knew about sex… but will never, ever tell you to your face.
photo by psd
All in all, it really isn’t that difficult to seduce a woman and make her want sex. Let us know you think we’re beautiful, that you want to be physically intimate, and how wonderful the sex is. Barring the occasional headache and physical exhaustion, women associate bed with sex too.