It’s a game? Are you being a Role-Play PUA?

Are you gaming the girl? Or is it just the game that you play?

Is it just another HB (HotBabe) that you are working your routines on?

I have recently noticed that PickUp treats life like a role play game. The Player called PUA (PickUpArtist) starts of as a novice. He is an AFC (AverageFrustratedChump) or even a wbAFC (waybelowAverageFrustratedChump). But he is on a quest. The holy quest to become one of the mighty PUGs (PickUpGurus) or mPUAs (masterPickUpArtists). In order to achieve this goals he has to collect little items.

Phone numbers for example. Later on he will collect Lays (which means notches in bedposts) and he will write about his heroic deeds so that other PUAs can learn from his greatness. So there is a PUA in the “field” running around looking for HBs. When he has found a target he will tactically walk up to her and choose one of his primary attacks: direct or indirect openers. She “as she is a worthy target ” will fight back with a bitchshield. But our witty hero is prepared for that and he will throw a neg at her and she will probably let down her defenses. Some HBs need a few negs.

Shotgun”negs,”  sniper”negs,” we have got a whole bag of negs here to apply on the target. Some targets are accompanied by Cockblocks. These vicious enemies right next to the prize will have to be fought of first before attacking the hot target. AMOGs (AlphaMalesOfTheGroup) are also very frequent. The nasty thing about them is that most of them enter the group at a point where you think that you almost had the target.

If the PUA has fought off enough enemies and used enough DHV (DisplayHigherValue) and rapport routines on the target, then he might get her number., as she now thinks of him as worthy suitor. After our mighty knight has truly proven that he can take any enemy on the modern battlefield of social games she, the HB10 who is not on a pedestal at all, (okay, sure she is the highest prize) but no,  it is not a real pedestal; she is just hot and” Oh c’mon” at least she deserves the pedestal; she is hot! “well, the HB10 will then grant the knight access to her panties.

Or maybe not. The problem with Pickup is not that you train your social skills to be really good!

The Problem is that you lose sight of the real persons in the real world. This whole role play mentality disguises the fact that game is actually about real men approaching real women. This disguise helps many people because the distance it creates helps dealing with other problems first. Many guys that start doing this are afraid to talk to a woman, so they talk to an HB (HotBabe).

They are afraid to get rejected, so they approach as a PUA ” the PUA will get rejected, not the person. The technique is to blame because it needs to be calibrated” It helps. I am honest ” it helped me when I started.

Let me just give you one piece of advice: Start as soon as possible to put your REAL self out there! Not the technique, not your alter ego, not some internet personality put the real YOU out there. Women want to get to know YOU!

Almost no woman wants to get “picked up” by a role “player that is using strange techniques” she does not want to be the prize of a game. She does not want her friends to be AMOGs and cockblocks that need to be fought off. She wants to be a woman. A real woman “a person” that is being desired by another person you. Sure you may not yet have the mindset or the personality that she will be all over you in an instant”but learn that. Improve your personality, not your pickup techniques. In the long run women will love you more with personality than with game.

Enjoy life, not game.

Jeans*Joe

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