How To Not Be Like All The Other Lame Guys In Bed

Recently a survey was done around the world asking women to reveal details of their sex lives. One result was consistent across the globe…

70 percent of women have never had a vaginal orgasm in intercourse.

Anyway you look at it there are a lot of frustrated women out there, which means a lot of guys are lousy lovers. (and truth is, I was once a lousy lover too, it cost me a wife.)

Over half of all women have faked a vaginal orgasm in intercourse. It is no surprise that over half of all marriages end in divorce.

All too many women complain that sex is not fulfilling and that men are being sexually selfish. Women feel left out. Think about it, when the man always has an orgasm in sex, but she doesn’t, it appears that sex is all about him.

So here is a little secret… if you don’t want to be her next lousy lover, don’t make sex all about you. (read that again)

Listen, I receive a lot of emails from women. They are freaking frustrated. They are tired of a life of unfulfilling sex. They read the stories on my blog and they dream about having the kind of exciting sex those women are having.

Here is one I got from a married woman:

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David,

I have read all the stories in your newsletter about the success that your clients have had in giving their woman vaginal orgasms in sex. How can I have a vaginal orgasm in sex?

I’ve been married for 15 years and I have never had an orgasm in sex. I only have orgasms from oral sex. My husband has no problem having orgasms in sex!

At age 39, I want so desperately to experience those powerful vaginal orgasms that your clients write about!

I thought maybe I was just one of the unlucky women who can’t have orgasms in sex, but after I found your website I began to wonder if maybe I’m just with the wrong man.

What do I need to do?

Sincerely,

Frannie

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That woman and her husband will soon be a statistic. She is beginning to resent him because he has orgasm in sex but she doesn’t. She will eventually lose respect for him. When respect is gone, the marriage is over.

From her perspective, it appears to her that her husband is being selfish. He orgasms in intercourse, but she doesn’t. Think about it, if you ejaculate inside your woman, but she doesn’t have an orgasm, then sex is all about you. She will feel left out. Over time it will end a marriage or any relationship.

What typically happens is that the woman will begin to notice other men. She will become friendlier with a particular man at work, or maybe a man she knows in a social situation. Mysteriously, she finds herself having an emotional relationship with him. She begins to think only of him. Inevitably, it turns into a sexual relationship. When he gives her a vaginal orgasm in sex, she leaves the marriage for good.

Every woman can have vaginal orgasms in sex. The problem is that most men don’t know how to make it happen. And many men don’t know the real reason when their wife or girlfriend leaves them.

So you ALWAYS want to make sure your woman has an orgasm during sex.

If you don’t know how, take some time to discover how to give women pleasure. You will instantly be different than most guys who never bother to learn anything about women.

And this should be your focus from the first time the clothes come off. If you don’t… if you come first and she doesn’t… you just became yet another lousy lover. Just like all those other lame dudes.

Make it about her, not you!

Give women incredible pleasure,

David Shade

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