JT stops by to help minorities with their game.
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Show Notes:
Interracial Dating and Pickup
Mostly inner game/limiting beliefs.
Self-fulfilling prophecy.
Push yourself to work in the field, don’t mope around the house.
American women have different cultural norms than international norms.
Asian men don’t typically hit on white girls. Start by letting her know that you are available.
Understanding emotions is very important when speaking with a girl.
The what is important, but the how is much more important.
A guy needs to handle sexual anxiety before he can truly excel.
Dancing is a good way to learn how to handle sexual anxiety.
How do I deal with Last Minute Resistance?
It’s not you, it’s her.
She knows why she’s in your bedroom; it’s her worrying about her social status, her reputation, and her worthiness.
Know your goals.
This podcast may well be very useful to guys of Asian and/or ethnic minority races, but i did not find the information particularly relevant to myself. So it is quite possible that a lot of Asian Playboy’s tips and advice went right over my head. However, this is not an interview which (i feel) warrants a second listen and i can see no reason as to why Playboy should be invited back onto the show for any future discussions.
Awesome stuff. Been following his blog for a while and know several people who took their bootcamp in LA, very cool guys. Very helpful for minorities, but heard his game is very good.
Im going to agree with the guy above. I don’t think that Asian Playboy has said anything so worthwhile in his interview. The notes that you guys have up there are all there is to know from his interview. Aside from that, he didn’t say anything that is not said by everybody else. I know we are not trying to reinvent the wheel, but there is a few key different rules for minorities that I thought he would address.
I think Soul’s interview, for instance, was even better in regards to minorities gaming women.
I also actually learned more from the guy running the interview (AJ?), bringing up the fact that there are some sticking points in addition to what Asian playboy was giving. I think the vocal coaching thing is very very important.
When you ask him about technikes to get women into his bed, Asian Pb goes into the fact that he uses cavemen stuff mainly (throwing the chick, slamming against the refrigerator), and when the interviewer (rightly so) points that it is dangerous areas, he states that yeah, it’s not recommended for “noobs” . This is an interview for us noobs, Asian Pb. And then, as a minority, you wanna b careful about manhandling a white chick, or a chick in general, cuz there is a stigma that guys from other countries mistreat their women. So even if there is no charges pending, it might still takes away brownie points in her brain. Girls love rough men, but there is a thin red line.
On top of that, he said elsewhere that he gamed in Dallas (which I spent 5 years in b4 moving to Austin), and…. idk, u have to take this with a grain of salt. I would really like to hang out with him, maybe he is more of a natural doer, than a teacher.
From my personal experience from being a minority, I would say that vocal coaching is the most important thing that helps me. Next, is a sense of style and elegance, to use my minority status in my advantage. Though I dress overall like, say, an American (instead of a chinese/black for instance). And then, the typical kino so she knows I am a sexual being. I found that smiling a lot while looking confident and manly is helpful.
All these I learned from other podcasts, but I would skip this one, unless you really want to check it out. I was so looking forward to this podcast, this is tragic.