AJ & Jordan of Pickup Podcast hang out with David Wygant in NYC!
Finally some of the great powerhouses of natural game get a chance to hang out and talk shop in New York City. Of course, David is always giving his best efforts working with clients and AJ & Jordan are always burning the midnight oil recording shows, so it naturally follows that we had to nail down Wygant and discuss his methods and weekend workshops.
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Show Notes:
Episode 36: David Wygant
Wygant was the inspiration for the movie
“Hitch.”
Dating, like anything else, takes work. You
can’t become a brain surgeon by
hanging out at a hospital…
If you can talk to everyone, girls will be
attracted to you.
It’s internal, not external.
Learn how to show who you are to women.
If you go out to get a number, you won’t
form an actual connection.
Intrigue a woman. Create a story. Life is a
prop.
Don’t wait three days. Text/call right away.
Women love games.
Create a crowd around you. Brighten
someone’s day.
You can’t turn on a switch and be good.
If you throw a girl’s words back at her,
it’s game on.
If you listen, and read a girl’s cues, she
will tell you everything she wants.
Don’t stare. Approach.
You’re going to be exposed if you try to be
something you’re not (peacocking, magic trick, etc.).
Think about what kind of woman you want to
attract.
You are an accessory for a woman. Do you
look good on her arm?
Girls will give you a chance.
Don’t look into the air, seduce her with
your eyes.
Actors learn how to seduce.
If you listen, she will seduce herself.
Be willing to walk away. Don’t choke her
with attention.
She will follow your lead if you are in
control of the situation.
Dinner is a terrible date. Take her out to
Target, goof around, have her pick up a cheap gift; she’ll think of you every
time she sees it.
This is the best interview yet in my opinion. He talks kind of fast but gave some really good insights.
Seriously, can you guys please please please get this guy back! I’ve listened to this episode at least five times since it aired. I’m impressed by all the people you’ve interviewed. But this guy has to be the most informative one yet. What I loved about him was that he had a natural game approach, but with a tone of energy and excitement. What a wealth of information!
Thank you, thank you, thank you, AJ and Jordan.
I can’t tell you how much I appreciate what you guys are doing.
He makes some great points, one of the most basic but often not followed is listen to the girl.
Not only listening to the multiple meanings of what she says, but also honing in to everything about the things she does, and watching for the details. You really can’t listen enough.
Good post
Andrew
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…and there is also an mp3 feed under the iTunes link on the blog page above on the right.
-Jordan Harbinger
Hey guys, would it be too much to ask if you guys can post these podcast in mp3 files? It’s a pain to convert these files to put on the mp3 player.
We have the mp3 files available on the iTunes feed. You don’t need to reconvert the files from there to play on your mp3 player. We put ads in the shows on the website to support the show. You can also make a donation and that will help keep the mp3 files on the feed free as well.
Best,
-Jordan
Brilliiant, fascinating, informative, compelling, etc….
The Pickup Postcast crew run an excellent mini-analysis on a recent David Wygant workshop. Wygant clarifies and reinforces many of the topics and concepts featured in earlier episodes. i dont know if this was intentional or ad hoc, but either way, it works great. The advice and amazingly clear examples are truly second to none. This session is action packed and delivered with a relentless drive from all parties.
If you are looking for OPENERS, then this interview is for you. It is quite literally busting with information from every angle !!