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Episode 31: Thundercat Show Notes
Stages:
Inner game before you go in field
The approach
Getting confident enough to take it to the next level with the girls you meet.
Most guys are cool enough that if you give them a push in the right direction with inner game, the other stuff (outer game) comes naturally.
Keep a blog about your experience; it helps you learn more quickly than you would otherwise.
How do I overcome approach anxiety?
There’s more to pickup than just knowing what to say. AA never goes away.
Everyone has a different hangup, based on different experiences of growing up.
Work on what’s going on inside your head first, before you go out and meet women.
“Root Causes:” Whatever is holding you back (ex: I’m to old, I’m too short, my ears are too big, etc.)
Learn social skills; then learn how to deepen the rapport.
It is step by step, and easy to do it, once you have the right mindset.
Pick Up Artists try to mimic what naturals do.
Naturals usually have sex in their early teens, and that experience shapes how they look at women.
PUAs take these social constructs that work for naturals, and reverse engineer them to work for themselves.
Naturals stay where they are since they don’t realize what they are doing, and why it works; PUAs continually evolve and get even better.
Know what you want and respect who you are.
Connect with people on a genuine level.
In the end, what are you really doing if all you do is run game on girls? It’s a false comfort if you always have on your “pickup persona.”
It’s hard to shift from doing routines to having a relationship.
Be honest with a girl from the beginning. If you want to have sex with a girl, don’t try to be her friend, then tell her later. If she pegs you as a friend, there’s almost no getting out of it.
Rapport: the process of becoming alike.
The only thing you have complete control over is yourself. When you focus on your own emotional states, and you are in rapport with someone, they will feel the same way you do.
i almost drowned of laughter when i heard the robot blowjob routine
You know… interviews like the one with Cory Skyy or the one with the Charisma Arts Guys are great, because they provide new information and are inspiring, but this one was just filler from beginning to end. Everything that guy said has been said so many times before on this podcast and everywhere else as well. Of course everybody hates routines these days, and yada, yada, yada. And you (AJ and Jordan) must realize this to, don’t you? So then why do you post this kind of interviews? I just don’t see the reason.
On another note, an interview with Steve Piccus would be great! Or could be, I mean, Hypnotica sucked arse, but I have confidence in him.
And 90 % of the time, your interviews are gold! So, well, keep up the good work!
Well, I enjoyed it. I liked hearing about his background and about his attempt at Speed Seduction. Personally, I don’t mind a little repetition, but then I haven’t been in the community that long.
Is it no longer possible to get MP3s? My MP3 player isn’t an iPod so these Apple files do me no good at all.
Could it at least be an option? Otherwise you lose a listener. I know – horror of horrors
I, too, am having trouble downloading many of the recent episodes. The broken links are different than all of the rest; when you mouse over them they say something about javascript(void) or something, not a real link to an .mp3. Any plans to fix this? Or am I somehow confused?
After listening to TC ramble in his nosey, robotic voice who would buy his product? This guy is talking about rapport, when he had ZERO rapport with AJ and Jordan.
Thundercat
0% charisma, 100% marketer
I wholeheartedly agree with previous posters. Thundercat has nothing new to offer, he even fails to present old knowledge in a new light.
The guy shouldn’t be interviewed.
Don’t know if Alan and Socially Challenged figured it out, but you can still download the episodes in MP3 format by clicking on the MP3 FEED link which is just below the itunes subscription link.