Playful teasing really is an art form. Learn how to generate sexual tension and make her want you!
Continued from Banter Part 1, AJ & Jordan cover more aspects of banter, such as push/pull and other playful teasing.
“In theory there is no difference between theory and practice. In practice there is.” -Unknown
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What is Banter?
The art of jovial/flirtation conversation
Gets you away from the nervousness of meeting someone new.
Use imagination/roleplay/humor to put a girl into a friendly and flirty mindset.
Banter is a way to make someone forget that she just met you five minutes ago.
You can disqualify yourself in a playful manner (false disqualifier), and turn it into a roleplay.
Use your imagination, not your logic!
Sarcasm is not banter
Flip the script on the girl, joke she has to protect you from other girls attacking you.
Remember to have fun with your roleplay, not be boring or predictable.
STAY AWAY from interview questions (where are from, what is your job, etc), that information will come out as you interact with her and tell each other stories.
Do not have conversation-enders (such as sarcasm).
Negs that point out flaws are NOT good banter.
Use “Pegs,” the opposite of negs.
Gets you away from the nervousness of meeting someone new.
Use imagination/roleplay/humor to put a girl into a friendly and flirty mindset.
Banter is a way to make someone forget that she just met you five minutes ago.
You can disqualify yourself in a playful manner (false disqualifier), and turn it into a roleplay.
Use your imagination, not your logic!
Sarcasm is not banter
Flip the script on the girl, joke she has to protect you from other girls attacking you.
Remember to have fun with your roleplay, not be boring or predictable.
STAY AWAY from interview questions (where are from, what is your job, etc), that information will come out as you interact with her and tell each other stories.
Do not have conversation-enders (such as sarcasm).
Negs that point out flaws are NOT good banter.
Use “Pegs,” the opposite of negs.
Use included “stock banter lines” if you can’t think of your own. As you get comfortable using them, make them your own and make up your own.
Even BETTER than “Banter #1″ !! lol
Great blog, but the cheatsheet link is down and out.
Whats up with your site, after listening to your first podcast I immediately wanted more,but whenever I got to number 2 it gave me the message “file not found”, the same thing happened all the way to 8.