Episode #6 Banter Part 1: Picking her up Without Her Knowing it

AJ Harbinger February 9, 2007 9

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*PODCAST UPDATE* Cheatsheet DL added below!

This week, in the first of a 2-part podcast episode, AJ & jordan outline another important tool in their pickup arsenal: Banter & Role-play. You’ll learn how to playfully take yourself and the women you meet mentally away from the social-pressure of a ‘pickup’, allowing you to later generate solid rapport and connection.

Part 1 focuses on role-play, part 2 will focus on the ‘playful teasing’ and ‘push/pull’ aspects of Banter.

“…don’t mean to bust your bubble, but girls of the world ain’t nothin’ but trouble.” -Will Smith

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9 Comments »

  1. Anonymous
    Anonymous May 22, 2007 at 12:05 pm - Reply

    Thanks for this. You guys are awesome!

    -Bender

  2. Anonymous
    Anonymous July 1, 2007 at 11:07 am - Reply

    Can you fix the link to the cheat sheet, or put it in another format. It’s not working in adobe.

  3. stayfly
    stayfly September 27, 2007 at 4:09 am - Reply

    really cool podcast guys

    The info here on banter was great. I especially liked your opinion on negs and I have always thought along the same lines as you on negs. The thing with negs is that, yes they have their place with the 10+ who have major attitude and need a neg to get their attention and to shift their focus (because she’s you aren’t bowing down to her and kissing her feet like everybody else) BUT for 90% of chicks who are just attractive, cool chicks – negs are unnecessary and goes against who I am and how I like to treat people (women and men).

    You’re some cool guys for thinking and acting objectively about things like negging.

    I like the date idea/day two of the Zoo. I have a yearly membership for Taronga Zoo (in Sydney) which gives me free entry for me and a guest (i.e. chicks) all year round – how cool is that? haha

    overall, this podcast was great stuff. keep doing your thing!

    peace
    Adam

  4. monsterjazzlicks
    monsterjazzlicks December 5, 2007 at 1:12 am - Reply

    Good episode as it clarified a couple of techniques of which i had only read about in books (being ‘false disqualifying statements’ and ‘fantasy role playing’).
    LISTEN AND LEARN !!!!!!!!! lol

  5. Andy11
    Andy11 August 5, 2008 at 6:08 am - Reply

    The link to the example banter is broken, would be nice to get a hold of it.

    Thanks!

  6. dylan
    dylan November 8, 2008 at 8:11 am - Reply

    I’ve been using this stuff on my girlfriend relentlessly [at least until her clothes are off] and she is having an awesome time laughing and goofing around [again, at least until her clothes come off].

  7. jasper
    jasper January 5, 2009 at 9:29 pm - Reply

    Hey guys! This episode rocks! ;)
    But the link to the banter sheet is broken, could you fix it?

  8. Chris
    Chris April 12, 2009 at 9:50 pm - Reply

    I started listening around April 9th to your Podcasts. I was walking to the car dressed up lastnight and you started talking about how to dress. I think its #5 or #6 and you said nice jeans are very good. I was wearing very stylish dress slacks, peach shirt and a tie. I turned around and went back upstairs and put on my favorite dark jeans (Request). Kept the shirt and tie. And I had a great time lastnight, felt great and not over dressed. Thanks!

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